Saturday, May 9, 2009

Springtime is Here…are some DO’s and DON’Ts

There are always basic do’s and don’ts of fashion. One of my greatest problems with what I “do” is to be out and about and not notice ALL the “don’ts” I see walking around. Not long ago my 28 year old son and I were getting out of the car at the grocery store. As we were pulling into the parking spot there was a full figured lady putting here cart in the storage area. She was wearing very tight black Lycra stretch Capri’s which were nearly see through. Her white undies were very apparent as well, it was so disturbing I was tempted to hop out of my car and offer the lady a towel I had in the back seat. There was NO way this woman could not have known what we were exposed to. This is of course is an extreme, however it is seems to happen more times than I could even write about.


There are plenty of NO NO’s. Females who choose to bare a very full midriff. Ladies whos thong is purposefully exposed for all to view. And the worst for me is the large busted women who wears an unsupportive bra and their nipples are very apparent. It used to be said if you are very small busted this is ok. LADIES, it is never ok. Personal opinion, take it for what it is worth. Although, I have never seen a “Lady” who wore her undergarments in this way.


I’m sure you have your own pet-peeves that you see and notice. I just listed my top three. My list could go on. If you are reading this blog you can see the smiley face backside I posted for fun. So beyond the very obvious NONO’s are the DON’Ts. Here are three to start the list. Never wear strappy high heels with re-enforced toe pantyhose. Martha Stewart got nailed for this one in the pages of a fashion magazine one time. Don’t wear light colored shoes with dark hoses ie: Black hose with White shoes, even if you are wearing a black and white outfit. Dark undergarments under light colored garments. This goes for guys who wear very light slackes with patterned boxers. Guy's are not left out when it comes to fashion NONO’s. These are simple standards of fashion, always will be.


Sometimes we need to be mindful of the trendy, usually don’ts, as they come and go. The whole, show the bra strap thing is over. Thank you very much. Jean skirts no wider than a belt with tights underneath. The thing about trends is, they are just that. A trend is sure to pass in it’s own good time. So choose carefully which ones you wish to participate in. Even if you like them, they may not be right for you because of age or body shape. Not all “this seasons color” is good for everyone. What we all have to do is let these trends inspire us. Carefully use them as a muse. One shade of this season’s must have color could be very right for you. You may want to Just be mindful as you buy. Try adding a color or trend in an accessory, like a purse or a scarf.


Here are a few of this Springs DO’s and DON’Ts from the fashion runways. I given them to you in brief so they are easy to read and implement. So here we go.

Retro Ruffles

There’s no better way to celebrate the arrival of spring—and with it, all those stellar outdoor times together than with a flirty ruffle-trimmed sundress. However, DON’T waltz into work with a strappy number like this, save it for the weekend, a bridal shower or even a shopping spree with ME!: Anything that’s a DO for a summer barbecue is likely an office DON’T.

Pastels and Neons Brights

Spring runways were full of pale pinks, faded turquoise and a few bolts of acid brights. DO incorporate the season’s bold new colors into your wardrobe with one vivid item, like a rainbow-bright skirt or blazer. Just wear ONE hot hue at a time, and DON’T try mixing a bunch of these trendy colors together—it can be blinding and not in a good way.

Biblike Necklaces

You may think you DON’T need this trend, but you DO. Remember, just do it in balance with your body size and shape, also in step with your personality. One large candy-color necklace like this will make any outfit seem super trendy. Seriously: One of these bad boys will make your trusty old T-shirt and jeans look like a million bucks.

DO try Oversize Earrings

Wanna glam up a simple top or LBD (little black dress)? Slip on a pair of shoulder-grazing chandelier earrings, but DON’T pile on any other accessories. Let these statement pieces reign alone. Big earrings + big necklace + big ring + big bracelet = big mess.

Bohemian Prints

BCBG, Michael Kors, Diane von Furstenberg and other designers whipped up sweet boho-print dresses for spring. While the easy-breezy dresses are a total DO for date night and more, leave the arm bands, floral crowns and love beads from the 60’s in your box of memories. Too many ’60s accessories can make you look like you’re stuck in a time warp—which is a definite DON’T!

Mix-and-Match Patterns

Seems like a contidiction, but done correctly it's not. This one takes alittle practice and a lot of saavy. Doing it in very mild ways is a great way to start. So DON’T be afraid to mix things up this season. As seen at the Michael Kors show, polka dots and stripes can be worn together, carefully. Just DO make sure the patterns are in the same color family.

Animal Prints

Whether it’s an exotic, safari-feeling top, a leopard-print dress or even a fabulous designer bag, animal prints are a total DO for spring. (Plus, we know that most of you and your beaus think animal prints are fun and sassy!) Being thought full to make it a classic piece and not cheap looking. However, saying “meow!” and giving the crazy-lady claw move while wearing it? Not like you have to be told, but that’s a DON’T.


They GO...They DON'T have to Match!


So many of my clients say, "That doesn't match". Well, that's ok. It's so OUT to have matchy matchy shoes and purse. To have your shoes match exactly with your dress. I don't prefer to look like a bridesmaid. Keep this thought in mind. Color hues GO. Simliar metallics GO. Certian fabrics and textiles GO. It is not necessary to have everything MATCH! If you have any questions, ask some you believes knows.


These are just some of the hints I have for you this Spring/Summer season. Want to get more?!? Want to go shopping for the best deals and fashion with someone to guide and assist you ?!? Give me a call or email me at cleartheclutter4u@yahoo.com. I'm here for you and I can't wait to get into YOUR closet!!

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